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Suicide is not the solution

Today, I was checking out the bdcylist’s group activities as a daily routine. Suddenly, My eyes stuck on a news that one of our youngest member commit suicide yesterday. After the reviewing his friend’s comments, I came to know that he was a very jolly minded cyclist. The reason behind the suicide was the punishment from school. Though I don’t support committing suicide but committing suicide is one kind of murder, and this is done by none but ourselves, our society and family. No one can show any excuse just to avoid this matter. Do you know? – Every year 10,000 Bangladeshis commit suicide according to the statistics provided by the Police Headquarters! According to a report by the World Health Organization, 19,697 people committed suicide in Bangladesh in 2011.

The statistics show that 73,389 people committed suicide in seven years from 2002 to 2009. Of them, 31,857 hanged themselves and 41,532 had swallowed poison to take their own life.

Some practiced methods of Committing Suicide in Bangladesh – Hanging, Poisoning, Taking Overdose of Drugs etc.

Most of the victims are women. Students rate is not so small than men.

Reasons:

1. Depression

This is without question the most common reason people commit suicide. Severe depression is always accompanied by a pervasive sense of suffering as well as the belief that escape from it is hopeless.

2. Psychotic 

Malevolent inner voices often command self-destruction for unintelligible reasons. Psychosis is much harder to mask than depression, and is arguably even more tragic. The worldwide incidence of schizophrenia is 1% and often strikes otherwise healthy, high-performing individuals, whose lives, though manageable with medication, never fulfill their original promise.

3. Impulsive

Often related to drugs and alcohol, some people become maudlin and impulsively attempt to end their own lives. Once sobered and calmed, these people usually feel emphatically ashamed. The remorse is often genuine, but whether or not they’ll ever attempt suicide again is unpredictable.

4. The desire to die

The decision to commit suicide for some is based on a reasoned decision, often motivated by the presence of a painful terminal illness from which little to no hope of reprieve exists.

5. They’ve made a mistake

Sometimes people are unwillingly commit suicide. It may be called accident less than suicide. For example, young are playing with rope and it fetch one of them. Accidentally, he dies.

Suicide or Murder ?

Some times, we hear news the girl/women committed suicide by poisoning themselves. But most of the cases, the scenario is different from that. The killer poisoned the victims and named it suicide. Yesterday, I was watching RTV and saw a news of murder. A servant was killed by throwing from fourth floor toilet ventilator. The house owner said that the servant jumped from there but some laborers from other building told the different thing. So, i think you can guess what is happening around of you actually.

An Analyze on Bangladesh:

Bangladeshi women are highly vulnerable to suicide and murder according to a recent study.

Bangladeshi and American researchers found that half of all unnatural deaths among women aged 10 to 50 were caused by suicide.

Inferior social status is the main fact of committing suicide. Another factor is the high illiteracy rate among women and their economic dependency on men, making it difficult for them to cope with pressure from husbands and relatives.

The study found that Bangladeshi women who are married far more likely to commit suicide than single women.

In the case of young people, the family separation, pressure of education, wrong strategy in education system, depression etc are the main reasons.

Bangladeshi government as well as the society avoid the suicide matters cause of religion issues and social values. But it cannot avoid when the number is 10000 per year. Yes, you cannot avoid.

Proposal:

1. Mass media should advertise frequently about not to commit suicide. The authority can make drama, events and film about it.

2. Parents should be more friendly with their children from childhood that they can grow up with a confident in life.

3. 3. Dowry system should be strictly prohibited in the society. It is a crime not only by the law also by the religions.

4. Counseling service should be provided in every ward as well as in school, college and universities.

5. Educated women should not live their life only for their family and they should do job to get rid of depression.

Few years ago, I watched a film named 3 Idiots. It’s a film related to committing suicide, how we throw out our children to death. You can also watch some movies with your friends, families to make them aware of committing suicide. You can find a list from there.

Last, but not least, I want to say, ” Committing suicide is not a solution. This the part of a Coward. And human is created to fight. “

A question to “0”

What you are actually? You are nothing but a big “0” in front of HIM. All you are doing to prove yourself that you are more than a “0” . —- Rimon Moral

If we do not make ourselves more than a “0” we automatically curse on HIM.

You try & you fail…U fail & u try..but true failure is, when u stop trying !! — Solaiman Shukhon

That’s the point when people take the alternative way to prove them more than a “0”, they forget about HIM; dare to mock on HIM and dare to prove that  they are the ones who can make “0” and can make more than “0”.

Is “O” a neutral or positive or negative ? Mathematicians proved, “0” is a positive number . If you are positive , there is nothing to do anything to prove yourself more than “0”.

Cursing or Mocking leads you to the way of hiding the power of positiveness. It will kill your creativity and will let you 2 steps back.

A little philosophy inclineth man’s mind to atheism, but depth in philosophy bringeth men’s minds about to religion. ———- Francis Bacon

Well, a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. We have a brain more than powerful of 1000 super computers. But what percentage actually we use !

Berkeley professor Marian C. Diamond from University of California, persuaded Thomas Harvey to give her samples of Albert Einstein’s brain in 1980s. She made a comparison to the ratio of glial cells in Einstein’s brain with that in the preserved brains of 11 men. The current research found that the prefrontal, somatosensory, primary motor, parietal, temporal and occipital cortices were extraordinary. So, what do you have actually ?

Before God we are all equally wise – and equally foolish. ——- Albert Einstein

See, what did he think ?

OK! You may show causes . Those Hajors, Monks, Nuns, Pandits, Gurus will lead you to heaven. Dear, No one can bring HIM to you. You need to be with yourself to get the light. Otherwise, the all gurus will make a business with you by selling your religion. Short cut method make your thought short.

OK! You may say, I don’t need heaven after my death and I don’t care, what I am doing; everything is right. After all, you are caring about yourself. Why?

Well, you can say, I will do everything to make myself happy in this earth whether it is right or wrong ! God says all will be calculated after death. Dear, does heaven live after death? Did you ever feel heaven or hell on earth? When you do a right thing you feel good. This is the heaven. When you do a wrong you feel bad. This is the hell. When you do wrong and wrong then you can’t feel the difference. Then your existence enters into the hell deeply.

Hell and Heaven lives in earth. You don’t need to wait for the death.

Now, your choice ! you want to become a positive “0” or not !!!